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I've been pretty silent lately, as I'm currently reshaping my website into a more professional, theme-based with service updates.

Following's a quick preview for those who are wondering what's boiling... *grinz*

 

 

The Big Change?

As I was browsing the web, I was just getting a little bored and started searching for my own name, and alas! I found my website of course, but also an online version of the article that I appeared on two years ago.

Online Version @ http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/printfriendly/0,4139,120243,00.html

As I was reading, I noticed that I'm now a little different from who I was. I lost many of the essence that made me who I was before. Although I've grown to be a little better at making friends of my own age, grew in fashion sense, but the lost in professionalism and discipline. The growing of laziness and losing enthusiasm in certain areas.

I guess I really have to remodel myself into what I really want myself to be and really be commited to stick to it.

I must live by how I used to live by, "With Passion, Attitude & Patience, nothing is impossible"

What Guys and Girls want Mismatch?

I was browsing the internet for guy's expectations of girls and vice versa in a relationship and here's a really interesting article I found from http://www.flinflon.net/friendship/men_women.htm.

The Ideal Man that every woman expects........

  • He will be a brilliant conversationalist.
  • He will be sensitive, kind, understanding and loving.
  • He will be a very hard working man.
  • He will help around the house by washing dishes, vacuming the floors and taking care of the garden.
  • He will be a man of emotional and physical strength.
  • He will be as smart as Einstein but look like Harrison Ford.


..........but what she actually gets

  • He always takes her to the best restaurants, someday he will take her inside.
  • He doesn't have any ulsers, he just gives them.
  • Anytime he gets an idea in his head, he has the whole thing in a nutshell.
  • He is well known as a miracle worker, it's a miracle when he works.
  • He supports his wife in the manner to which she was accustomed, he lets her keep her job.
  • He is such a bore, that he even bores her to death when he gives her a compliment.
  • He has occasional flashes of silence that make his conversation brilliant.
  • After a man finds out his 'woman' is no angel, he tries to ascertain to what extent she isn't.


The Ideal Woman that every man expects...........

  • She will always be beautiful and cheerful. She could marry a movie star but she wants only him.
  • She will have hair that never needs curlers or beauty shops.
  • Her beauty won't run in a rainstorm.
  • She will never be sick, just allergic to jewellry and fur coats.
  • She will insist that moving the furniture is good for her figure.
  • She will be an expert in cooking, cleaning, fixing the car, painting and keeping quiet.
  • Her hobbies will be mowing the lawn and washing dishes.
  • She will hate credit cards.
  • Her favourite expression will be "What can I do for you dear?".
  • She will think you are a genius and look like her favourite movie star.
  • She will ask you to go out with the boys so she can get some housework done.
  • She will love you because you are so sexy.


...........but what he actually gets

  • She speaks 140 words a minute, with gusts of up to 180.
  • She was once a model, for a totem pole.
  • She is a light eater, once it is light she starts eating.
  • Where there is smoke, she is cooking.
  • She lets you know you have only two faults, everything you say and everything you do.
  • No matter what she does with it, her hair looks like an explosion in a steel wool factory.
  • If you get lost, open your wallet and she will soon find you.
Back for Good

It's been almost 5 months since I last posted anything in this space... Was really tied up with other stuffs... Greatest apologies for those who have given your kind support, but yet seeing no new content.

Lots had happened over the past 5 months, YES! including my bday! *winks*

Here are some of the random moments of myself during the past couple months. Big Smile

At the Zouk Emergency Exit (for what, I also have no idea). .Haha...

Building 50 dollar domino at the Travel Agency cashier while waiting for my tickets....

A project by freshair.sg (still no clue what's that about) where promoters were giving away free flowers at Taka

The flyer from Jia Yi's car enroute to Zouk

Mercedes with an interesting car plate at a carpark near Bugis.

Guys Before and After, Marriage

Got this chain main through hester, which I thought was really interesting... =D

 

Before marriage....


 He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: No! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course! Over and over!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: No! Why are you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Every chance I get.
She: Will you hit me?
He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.
She: Darling!

  

After marriage......

Simply read from bottom to top.

What's your Horoscope? What does it mean?

Happen to get this email from a friend which I thought was really interesting. =D 

ARIES - The Liar
Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, Addictive. Loud. 16 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

TAURUS - The Tramp
Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships.  Likes to give a good
fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person.  One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

GEMINI - Irresistible
Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in the you know where... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out.
Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

CANCER - The Cutie
MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative.  Extremely random and proud of it. Freak.
Spontaneous. Great telling stories.  Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to. 12 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

LEO - The Lion  
Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Unpredictable.  Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

VIRGO - The One that Waits
Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. The one and only. 7 years of bad luck  if you do not forward.

LIBRA - The Lame One
Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet!  However,  not the kind of person you want to mess with... you might end up crying... 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
 
SCORPIO - The Addict
EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Energetic. Predict future. GREAT kisser. Always get
what they want.  Attractive. Easy going. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Romantic. Caring. 4 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One
Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you want to  mess with- you might end up crying. 4 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover
Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Predict future.
Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always
gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to own Gemini's in sports.
Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water
Trustworthy... Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being in
long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out. 2 years of bad luck if you do not forward

PISCES - The Partner for Life
Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

Other's success at your expense? Think again!

does this sound all too familiar to you? if it does, think again to the next time you say yes. *grinz*

3rd World Citizens from a 1st World Country

Following's a great example of what I call, 3rd world citizens holding a citizenship of a first world country.

As some might have read, there's this group of british english speaking tourist , humiliating a senior citizen i Singapore, who's just trying to make his own living through providing trishaw transportation services, a fast vanishing trade, but one that definitely should not be lost.

 

 

Don't these people feel the least ashamed of their behaviours, and worse, documenting down their uncivilised and uncultured acts?

YouTube Clip: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KB_GoQ-h9Zg

Why Car Ads With Male Models Are NOT ok!!!

Someone sent me this really hilarious mail. Enjoy!

Hobby as a Job

Everytime when I take a look at the industry and people working in the industry around me, I noticed that a great number of these people I meet are just treating their jobs as "a job". What does this mean? Are they really doing what they like? Are they if, at all, passionate about what they're doing?

What does it mean to be passionate about something? When you're passionate about something, the time spent on it is no longer an obstacle as the process, even if its painstaking, is something that you enjoy and would do to the best, potentially even beyond your perceived ability. Especially in the world we live in today, where information is exploding, the amount of knowledge to be absorbed is just tremendous, whether its in the IT industry, engineering industry, fashion industry or etc, there's always room for improvements.

Without passion, would we even bother reading up on these? Would we go attend upgrade courses at our own expense even?

I've been thinking along, observing, why software developers, especially, in the US and Australia are so much better then most that I see in Singapore, is really rooting back to passion. Many developer contacts/friends that I have from these two countries, I noticed, read alot about all these programming stuff, even on their family vacation (in the airplane) and after office hours. Are we doing that here, if at all?

And when they know that they're ultimately passionate in something, and could not find a company that offer such a job there, they're create such a job for themselves. Is that kind of attitude the source of many great enterprises being built along the way in those countries?

As some would have known, I've been quite busy with the hiring process of a programmer and a designer. Has been months now and I've only hired a designer.

Of the many programmers who come for the interview, I noticed that they really, only know what they're taught. They do not usually make any effort to learn any other things, outside of school. Especially for the fresh school leavers. And guess what? Of the 100+ resumes I received for this position, about 90% are from overseas, and those are the resumes that impressed me more.

Is the local IT industry facing a crisis for talent?

Good Reads

To get or not to get

this is a really cool looking outfit which I'm still hesitating whether to get or not to get... Surprise

Fashion? Whazdat?

Notice that there's this trend that many locals and folks around the region are really influenced by the TRENDS that are happening in japan and korea in terms of fashion style.

I guess one of the main reasons for that, is due to the reason of the close approximity, JPOP and KPOP craze as well as the similar trades that we share as asians.

For example, asian hair and caucasian's hair cuticle are a little different, on 5 accounts

  1. Number of Cuticle Layers
    Cuticles are the protective “shingles” that guard the inner protein structure of your hair. Typical human hair has 5 to 10 layers of cuticles. Asian hair has more (closer to 10) than Caucasian (which has closer to 5). Asian cuticles are also wider, thicker and more densely packed.
  2. Flatness of Cuticles
    On Asian hair, the cuticles are laid down with at a steeper angle. Caucasian hair has flatter cuticles.
  3. Distance Between Cuticles
    The interval, or distance, between cuticle cells is narrower in Asian hair than in Caucasian hair.
  4. How Hair Breaks
    As Asian hair is stretched or pulled, the cuticles tend to break off in large pieces that keep their original shape. On the other hand, the cuticles of Caucasian hair tend to break into smaller fragments and fall off. In this sense, Caucasian cuticles are more fragile.
  5. Why Hair Breaks
    The cuticles of Asian hair tends to fall off because the adhesive that holds the cuticle cells together fails. In Caucasian hair, the adhesive holds better but the cuticle cell itself starts to break first.

    Source: http://thebeautybrains.com/2007/01/17/5-ways-that-asian-hair-is-different-from-caucasian-hair/

As a result, in many cases, Japanese/Korean styles would have been much more practical and suitable for us asians then.

Had been searching around online and found some really interesting Japanese Fashion Magazines, which I would be suscribing to. :)

Men's Non-No

Men's Egg

FINE BOYS

Also found some nice sites for ladies

And Some Mags on Female Fashion

Seventeen

CUTIE

Popteen

Non-No

Cawaii !

Its always good for guys to know a little of female fashion, so that when you go out with your girl for shopping, you'd be able to give some valuable advice/comments/feedback, which she'd definitely appreciate!

Is your brain defuncting?

Something I happen to get in an email... Enjoy... 

If your eyes follow the movement of the rotating pink dot, the dots will remain only one color, pink.

However if you stare at the black ' +' in the center, the moving dot turns to green.

Now, concentrate on the black ' + ' in the center of the picture. After a short period, all the pink dots will slowly disappear, and you will only see only a single green dot rotating.

Good friday

Today had been a really long day for me today. Was off today, thus waking up late from the late night party earlier on thursday.

I had been considering of changing an image as a whole for a long time, but never did I have the chance to do a new hairstyle by a internationally aclaimed hairstylist until today, where I went to Jeric's studio to do my hair.

He's a really friendly guy with really deep knowledge and exposure on hairstyling, being trained all over the world and having done hairstyling/cut for artistes such as 5566, S.H.E, Wang Lee Hom, Stephanie Sun, Coco Lee, David Tao, Michelle Branch, Tension, A1, BAD, BEYOND, Jackie Wu, and the list just goes on...

After happily getting my hairdone, I went walking around Bugis randomly walking and ended up getting a bag which I never thought I would. It's none other then a Timbuk2 Bag.

Look really harmless, but burned 158 bucks off my bank! After which, went down to

  1. Kino to get a couple jap fashion mags
  2. Suntec for the AOA conference, and
  3. then to meet Shanon for the costume selection, and
  4. then to interview,
  5. then meet matt
  6. then at dinner


  7. then went shopping (where i spent another 60 bucks on a new pair of canvas shoes, which I couldntseem to locate on their webbie)
  8. then went to meet zhen + jas
  9. then went to plush,
  10. then went to fetch matt's dad's car,
  11. then went home.

Seems alot happing in just 8 hours! OMG!

Meaning of Roses
Different coloured roses have different meanings. Different number of roses also have different meanings like single rose means exceptional love, 2 rose means deep love and there are many more.

  • 1 Rose ---- Exceptional love
  • 2 Roses ---- Love deeply
  • 3 Roses ---- I love you.
  • 6 Roses ---- Want to be yours.
  • 9 Roses ---- Love eternally.
  • 11 Roses ---- I love u most in my life.
  • 12 Roses ---- Mutual affinity.
  • 13 Roses ---- Secret admirer.
  • 24 Roses ---- Remember you fondly all the time
  • 33 Roses ---- Express profound love
  • 36 Roses ---- Romantic attachment
  • 44 Roses ---- Unchangeable pledge.
  • 50 Roses ---- Regretless love
  • 56 Roses ---- You are my love.
  • 66 Roses ---- Beautiful love affair
  • 99 Roses ---- Making love eternal
  • 100 Roses ---- Devoted couple
  • 101 Roses ---- No other love but you.
  • 108 Roses ---- Please marry me!
  • 111 Roses ---- Eternal love.
  • 123 Roses ---- Free love.
  • 144 Roses ---- Loving you day and night eternally.
  • 365 Roses ---- Thinking of you everyday, love you everyday.
  • 999 Roses ---- Everlasting and eternal love.
  • 1001 Roses ---- Faithful love, 'till forever.
  • Something I ripped in entirety from Rena's Blog

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